"How Sexy is Too Sexy?" By Hayley DiMarco

I go to a very technical, modern and tolerant highschool. That means I am in the generation of more; parties, sex, drugs, drinking, new lingo/cussing, flirting, slutty clothes, and well you get the picture. I know where I stand with morals, and being a teen its hard to hold them high and not get drawn in to the hype and do what everyone else is doing. BUT My mama and I have some pretty good books. They are by Hayley DiMarco, Joshua Harris, Justin Lookado, Ryan Dobson and More.

So lets start with me so that you can understand my opinions. I have made a vow of purity. This means I have taken a vow, a spiritual/emotional/physical/relational promise, to not have sex before I am married. I think that sex is meant for husband and wife and no other, it is valued, and God wants it to be smiled upon. I dont like sex being misrepresented, and being sold to teenagers, and girls basically showing off their thighs or so much cleavage just to get attention. Because we all know, its saying, “have sex with me” to all the testosterone-filled young men walking down the hall.

Before reading on, this section relates to and attatches on to “How Sexy is Too Sexy?” By Hayley DiMarco. I am recomending this to EVERYONE parents, teens and anyone who wants to read it. It puts alot of things into perspective.

SO I dont want to gross you out but its the only way to put this. Imagine your 14, 15 year old daughter down a hall with her cleavage out, and her thong showing right abover her hiphugger pants. Oh and not to mention she is flirting with a couple guys. First of all, what do you say? What do you think that says to teachers/friends/anyone? What does that say to boys or other girls? That says, “I am easy, I will show you what you want.” Well of course, you dont want her to say that, you want to yank her out of school about now. Sadly she already is, she has already either been labeled a tease, a flirt or a slut. I, the girl that might be her friend, I dont want to see it anymore than you do. Other girls dont want to see it. It’s disgusting she would sell herself like that, even if she doesnt think she is “selling herself”, she is. So would you want to be doing that to yourself? Would you want your friend to do that? Do you want your daughter or niece portraying her image like that? No.

That is why I watch what I wear and show. So i notice the “sexy thongs”, or the “sexy hiphuggers” or the “sexy new bra” that girls are showing at school and I wonder how they are REALLY leaving their house. You care right? But do other parents care? Are their parents teaching them morals? If so, are these girls listening? NO! Because they are obviously sneaky enough to dress different at school, that who knows what else they might be doing. They COULD really be having sex, doing drugs drinking, and their parents wouldnt know because they didnt know that their daughter was dressing different in the first place.

I am not bashing anyone, girls, nor parents. We are a simply uneducated world and I want to share what I know.